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Feb 10, 2022Liked by Molly Wizenberg

Oh man, your mere mention of the B&N on N. May reminded me of own trips there with my father. Every couple of months on a Tuesday we would have "culture night" where we would go wine shopping at this large liquor warehouse on NW Expressway near a golf course (Tuesday was ladies night) and then head to that B&N to shop for handfuls of books to hold us over until the next trip.

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Feb 9, 2022Liked by Molly Wizenberg

The last trip I took before the pandemic was to NYC to see friends for Thanksgiving. I got tickets to see Byrne's American Utopia show and it was so wonderful. Last night I went and saw Bjork, my first big concert since, and maybe things are looking a little brighter.

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American Utopia is incredible, isn't it? And YESSSSS to Bjork!

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Feb 9, 2022Liked by Molly Wizenberg

Since 1976 I have been a follower/fan of Peter Frampton. I could relate so much to what you said. I have been to many concerts in many cities and states, have met many other fans and made lifelong friendships. I've met Peter many times; he even proposed to me (for my husband) during a concert in Las Vegas in 2002. I have posters on my wall. I have recently began sharing much of my collection with other, younger fans and am in the process of creating a scrapbook for the 50 plus concerts I have attended. I am 70 years old, but when I am attending a Peter Frampton concert or in his presence, I am my 25 year old self again when I saw him for the first time. These feelings aren't easily explained unless you are with another person who "gets it". Thank you for sharing your story. I completely get it.

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Oh my god, Deborah, you had a public proposal via Peter Frampton at a concert in Las Vegas!!!! That's the stuff of legend. I love that it happened to you.

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Reading "Driving my car the other day, with Born Under Punches (The Heat Goes On) playing on the stereo", I'm suddenly transported back.

A memory I didn't even know I had forgotten.

I'm19 years old, invincible of course, and sitting on the windowsill of a small car, torso outside, legs inside, arms waving into the night air, while a friend I've now long forgotten speeds through the dusty outback Australian evening, the opening strains of Remain in Light pumping on the car stereo. Great times. :)

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Ross, that's the kind of scene I imagine showing up in a movie about being a teen in 1980. Iconic.

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Feb 8, 2022Liked by Molly Wizenberg

I grew up in OKC (now living in Washington too) and know that Barnes & Noble well. I suspect we might have shared a pair of those ratty communal headphones.

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Feb 8, 2022Liked by Molly Wizenberg

Made my heart swell - from one weirdo to another.

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xx

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Feb 8, 2022Liked by Molly Wizenberg

This spoke directly to me! I also have a musician I admire and fangirl over (in my mid 30s lol) and this piece resonated so much to me...like the fact that it's sometimes puzzling...and how I've contemplated what would happen if I found one one day that he's died. So nice to hear a story of someone out there who is like me, and written so beautifully and eloquently of course!

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Mayumi, would you be willing to share who the musician is? Now I'm dying to know...

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Haha yeah it's the lead singer of Bastille...when I met him a few years ago I gave him my tattered copy of Ignorance by Kundera..my sisters are still making fun of me for this 🙈

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Feb 8, 2022Liked by Molly Wizenberg

I saw the Talking Heads (with Black Uhuru) at the Santa Barbara Bowl in 1982. I was backstage and got to say Hi to David. It was a pretty amazing experience for a kid who wasn't old enough to drive!

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!!!! Incredible. What was he like when you met him?

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Feb 8, 2022Liked by Molly Wizenberg

So very glad you are "back", altho I'm sure you have been somewhere, doing something, all along. Take care.

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Thank you. xx

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Feb 8, 2022Liked by Molly Wizenberg

I love that you are back…I’ve missed you! Was an avid fan of Orangette and loved all your books! Sometimes I re-read Delancey and remember how delish the pizza was when we visited Seattle! Huge fan of David Byrne and love your story!

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Thank you, Sueanne!

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Feb 8, 2022Liked by Molly Wizenberg

Perfection. I love Byrne and the Talking Heads, and I love your homage to his art. Thanks, Molly. Here’s to making art anyway.

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Cheers to you, friend.

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Feb 8, 2022Liked by Molly Wizenberg

“Here was a spaceship I wanted to ride.” Beautiful writing. A wonderful way to start my Tuesday.

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Feb 8, 2022Liked by Molly Wizenberg

This was so good that I’m sitting here in tears, M. So, so good. 💙

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You made my week, friend.

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